TIP'S FOR STOPPING A BREAKUP, IF THERE'S STILL A CHANCE

It sucks when it seems like you’re headed towards a breakup–but it doesn’t have to suck, and it doesn’t have to be a breakup if you take the right measures to ensure that it’s not! Breathe, zoom out of the situation, try not to overreact (even to your overreactions), and figure out if the person you’re loving, is worth you sticking out your relationship. If so, here are some tips that could help you stop the possible break up…
1) Give space
Sometimes that “near-breakup” space might be just what you and your lover need to recuperate from any recent “weirdness” or fighting or lack of synchronization you both have been experiencing as of late. Sometimes, instead of a permanent break, you two might just need to give each other space, find what makes you individuals, and become attractive to each other again, by reconnecting to your individual selves.
2) Go back to the basics
If you’ve been together for a while, and problems are causing the both of you to feel on-edge and ready for a breakup, a great solution to ease the tension might be to go back to the things that brought you two together in the first place. What did you first like about each other? Where did you two first meet? Go back there and channel your energies towards–not “living in the past,” per se–but rebooting your love engine with your most premium, most original fuel.
3) Air out & clear out
Airing out all the baggage and stress that’s causing you two to feel like you need a breakup, may actually be effective in stopping the breakup if there’s still hope for you two. Talking about the real issues, instead of attacking each other, or not talking at all, could be therapeutic…not to mention, mature. Try to speak to each other in a way that soothes the other person’s soul, not in a way that aggravates the problem.
4) Redesign the relationship’s mission
If you can successfully complete advice #3, then you should be able to accomplish this step, which is to reestablish the relationship’s “mission.” If you’ve had problems before with a particular issue in your relationship for example, then the new mission should center around a lifestyle with your lover that destroys that issue and thrives in a brand new space. Make a pact about it.
5) Be intimate
Sex can save a relationship that still has hope, if the sex is applied in a way that’s honest and passionate. Using sex only as a temporary distraction for avoiding breakups will not work. Hence, the advice here is to be intimate…to really explore the needs of your relationship in a way that’s healing and soothing through communication, prayer and skin contact!

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