11 SIGNS YOU SHOULD GET BACK WITH YOUR EX

1.  You don’t remember why you broke up in the first place.

Arguments are healthy and necessary for all relationships.  You and your partner won’t agree on everything.  Maybe you’re a tad bit obsessive about keeping a clean closet, but your partner feels that the floor is fine for keeping clothes organized.  If your relationship is full of more pleasant than sad times, then a break-up isn’t necessarily what’s needed.  Your love should be built on more than a load of laundry.  Breaking up to make up may be fun for the moment, but in the long run it only weakens the bond.

2.  Because all of your friends say so.

The people who know best about any relationship are those involved, but being in love with someone can transform our perception in a way that isn’t completely realistic.  When you develop romantic feelings for someone, you tend to think the best about them.  After investing feelings into that person, when they appear to be anything less than the vision of perfection they once were, you tend to think of them more harshly than you should.  Friends have the ability to offer an objective opinion and give you some insight on not only what went wrong, but also what went went right.

3.  The timing is right.

Timing is an important factor in all relationships.  Maybe you meet someone and although your heart connects, your mind is still that of a single person. It’s also possible that you have other things going on (career, education, etc.) and a relationship just isn’t your priority at the time. People grow and change.  If some time has passed and you are fortunate enough to reconnect with someone who was once very special to you, you may be surprised to find that you both have reached a point in your personalities and lives where a relationship doesn’t require nearly as much effort to make work.

him/her.  Long-term relationships can grow stagnant every now and then and couples can incorrectly assume that a break-up is what’s needed, when in fact all that was needed was a change.  If your life suddenly turned for the worst and the only thing that’s changed is your relationship status, it might be time to look for ways to ignite that flame instead of blowing it out.

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